A huge part of what animates homophobia among young people is paranoia and fear of their own capacity to be gay themselves.
I'm allergic to dogs, so I couldn't even adopt what gay men typically adopt when they have that maternal gene.
In an open adoption agreement, you agree to a minimum number of visits - a floor, not a ceiling. It's enforceable.
I treat people who write me the way my friends and I all treat each other when we go to each other for advice, which is sometimes with supreme cruelty.
Children have a right to some stability and constancy from the adults in their lives.
Straight couples don't have to be monogamous to be married or married to be monogamous. Monogamy no more defines marriage than the presence of children does. Monogamy isn't compulsory and its absence doesn't invalidate a marriage.